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СЕКС В МАЛЕНЬКОМ ГОРОДЕ | SEX IN A SMALL TOWN

My husband told me to work. An abuser is an antonym for a «good guy». It is the
This can end the story. The woman just wanted a fur «good guy» that women need, because it is easy to
coat, like one of her friends. Change the apartment control, use, bend under themselves.
like another one. A country house, like the third. Your And if suddenly you decide that a woman
business is like the fourth (well, or rewrite your own). has not only rights, but also duties, then a
Breasts like someone on Instagram. Travel every woman immediately sees you as a tyrant and an
month, from the same place. Lamborghini, dresses, abuser, because women are not ready to take
diamonds. Very diligently made a wish card, pasted responsibility.
all the walls with photos from the life of a dream. I And then it’s up to you: to remain a «good guy»
signed up for a marathon of wishes. I signed up for a who will always be dependent on a woman and
training on pumping female chakras. her opinion, or to be an abuser who values himself
This training was in the Maldives. Everything would and his resources, being in a dominant position in
have worked out if the abuser with his prohibitions the family.
had not stood in the way of the dream. He did not If you have already become comfortable, if your
give money for the trip, forbade it altogether and said: meaning of life is a woman, then you have already
«GO WORK.» Who would tolerate this? Nobody. failed your significance. And here any attempt to
Everyone knows that they work — beggars. For big give back will be perceived by a woman as an
money, special energy is needed. abuse.
So that’s it. Women impose a distorted understanding of
And I can tell a great many such stories. words on men, because it’s more convenient to
Some of them are about physical violence. The control a man. They impose that a man always
woman beat and bludgeoned her husband, and he owes a woman, and when he is led to such
defended himself and pushed her away. Accusations manipulations, after a while he looks back at
and statements flew to court. All relatives and friends his life and sees that his life is a payment for a
were notified that the man was an abuser and beat woman’s wishes.
his wife. And it is in such situations that women shout the
Or stories about men who demand the fulfillment of word «abuser».
household, family, and marital duties. This is violence. If you don’t want to conform to a certain image
I don’t want to, but they make me. that a woman has come up with, you are an
Or stories about men who were known as abusers abuser.
because they invested in business development, not in
their wives. Not on her wishlist.
Women call abusers those men who do not give
them rights without responsibilities. Who have their
own WANTS, their own goals? Who has their own
personal boundaries? The boundaries of what is
permissible and permissible. Who clearly know
how to deal with them and how not to. What they
are ready for, what they are not. Who do not atone
for the endless guilt imposed on them and are not
going to. Which are not swayed by emotions, are
not manipulated and provoked. Who believe that he
himself is in the first place with them, this is already an
outrageous nightmare.

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